The Money Complex Just Got Less Complex

I haven’t written in awhile for a couple of reasons. Number one, work and my practice have been really busy (as you can imagine). Number two, our culture has been on a rollercoaster ride to match the dips and loops of the market. Each day seems to usher in a whole new socioeconomic “reality.” It astounds...

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Amanda in the WSJ: Keeping Spending in Check

Different life transitions bring with them different financial challenges. For young people just entering the workforce post-college, the challenges include establishing a professional identity, developing a budget that balances their new expenses with their new income, and managing all of the stresses...

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Amanda in the NY Times: A Conflict that Came in the Mail

Spouses are always doing little things "for each other's good." In the past I may have taken it upon myself to retire some of my husband's more-than-gently-worn socks (to all the TSA agents who were privy to the site of his big toe poking through in the security line: you're welcome).MP Dunleavey...

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Reading, Writing, and Relevant Cost?

As a high school student, I never learned economics -- home, macro, or otherwise. Interestingly enough I went to a math and science-focused magnet school, so I was better prepared to handle infinitesimals than interest rates.In fact, my personal finance education started right about the time I walked...

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Your Creditor is Silently Judging You

You stay below your credit limit, pay your bills on time, and always pay more than the minimum balance due. Yet your creditor mysteriously raises your interest rate and cuts your credit line in half. What gives? Maybe it was because you swiped your card at the bar or at a massage parlor, and the lender's...

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Seminar: Remain Calm, Create Wealth

If you are in the New York area and are looking for a hands-on, solution-focused personal finance seminar I would like to recommend the June 30th session of Remain Calm, Create Wealth. MP Dunleavey (personal finance journalist, MSN Money contributor, and New York Times Cost of Living columnist) and...

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Is There a Doctor in the House?

In my financial counseling practice sometimes I have to deliver bad news. Whether it’s showing a client how his income doesn’t support his already modest lifestyle or helping a family understand the terms of their unmanageable debt, I am there when painful economic realities are revealed, often for...

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My Future's So Bright, I Gotta Buy Shades

In The Secret Life of Money, Tad Crawford offers this revolutionary concept:Keeping the symbolic value of money in mind....we can gain a new view of debt, seeing it not as merely an obligation to be paid but also as a statement about how our inner richness will be expressed in the future (italics added).That...

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Explanatory Styles and Financial Baby Steps

This morning as my daughter was learning to pull herself up in her crib, I became aware of how I kept my hand on her back, supporting her. Without thinking about it I maintained a presence that was close enough to mitigate a swift fall that might injure, but not so close that she couldn't experiment...

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ING Direct "Funny Money?!" Event on May 21st, 2008

I'm going to be participating in an event on May 21st in conjunction with ING Direct NY Cafe. The event is geared toward engaging artists and performers to think about the ways they use money to take care of themselves. Below is the press release. If you are interested in the event and are in the New...

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The New Value of Value Consciousness

Which is easier: trying to make healthy food choices when you’re surrounded by people who value nutrition and find creative ways to enjoy food, or trying to make healthy choices when you’re in the midst of folks who binge on transfats and disdain calorie counts?It takes a lot of effort to moderate...

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MyFICO, Myself

I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that some people need to stop worrying so much about their credit scores. When did credit scores become an obsession? If I see one more article about how people spend hours each month trying to “game” the model to drive their score up a few points, I am going...

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Amanda in the New York Times: A New Model for Financial Planning

My involvement in this article started when the writer, M.P. Dunleavey, shared with me something she had noticed over the years. In social situations, when she meets women and tells them she is a financial writer they often respond with almost dismissive disdain about taking responsibility for their...

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The Road from Financial Infidelity to Financial Intimacy

The Spitzer Scandal has ignited a firestorm of discussion regarding the broader spectrum of what can be considered “infidelity.” Along with the marital betrayal and the criminal act, many people are also taking note of the breach of financial trust.As New York relationship therapist Bonnie Eaker Weil...

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Amanda on MSN: Solutions for a Spender-Saver Marriage

Awhile back I wrote about how when two people plan a life together, "financial intimacy" is rarely a topic that is even on the radar. So what do you do when you find out that the person you're married to is your complete opposite in terms of spending and saving priorities? This MSN.com article explores...

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Amanda on MSN: Does Money Trouble Come in Threes?

When it rains it pours, so the expression goes. But is this true when it comes to your money, or does it just seem that wa...

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Amanda on About.com: Artists and Money

It really is possible for artists to have a stable and healthy relationship with money! Truly it i...

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Amanda in The New York Times: The Conflict of Spending and Candor

I am quoted in an article on communicating with your partner about spending behavior. My comments may surprise yo...

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Money Lessons for Kids (and Parents)

Kids today have a pretty challenging money legacy. From different kinds of student loans to exotic mortgages and default interest rates, the answer to the question “Can I afford this?” has taken a trip down the rabbit hole.Parents are scrambling to prepare their children for this brave new reality....

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Financial CPR: C is for Cash Flow Plan

This post is the first installment in the Financial CPR series. Financial CPR comprises a set of tools to use in the event of a sudden crisis, such as unforeseen unemployment. The following information should be seen as general education and is not intended to constitute individual financial advice.Remain...

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Financial CPR: P is for Protect Yourself

This post is the second installment in the Financial CPR series. Financial CPR comprises a set of tools to use in the event of a sudden crisis, such as unforeseen unemployment. The following information should be seen as general education and is not intended to constitute individual financial advice.Anticipate...

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Financial CPR: R is for Recovery

This post is the third installment in the Financial CPR series. Financial CPR comprises a set of tools to use in the event of a sudden crisis, such as unforeseen unemployment. The following information should be seen as general education and is not intended to constitute individual financial advice....

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